Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Obstacles & Challenges


Some how I have made it to almost week 8 of the nursing program, almost half way! I couldn't explain to you how I have made it this far with all the obstacles I've had to over come. But, I always know that I am not in this boat alone and it should be somewhat normal to have these feelings, right?
It all begins with the shock you get when you first start. I remember looking at my class schedule thinking how unethical it was to be in class for ten hours straight. Adapting to these long, challenging schedules was an obstacle in it self. You have to push your family and jobs aside, which to me are very important and hard to let go, to just make it through the present week. Once I adapted, which I am still in the process of doing, I am able to remind myself that this has been my dream since I was a little girl and my family will always be there. The whole beginning almost seems too surreal, and I still don't know how I made it through but somehow, I made it.
Once you finally adept to that and are going through the motions of all of it, you’re presented at least weekly with your breaking point. For me, this involves a lot of crying (kind of like this picture) and giving myself a pep talk to calm myself down. It usually happens before the night of the big exams when you couldn't dare yourself to read another fifty pages or go over my mountain-high stack of flash cards. This has to be the biggest lesson I've learned thus far in the program. No longer can you cram the night before and pray that you get a reasonable grade, nope not anymore. The breakdowns have subsided and can now put that energy toward studying harder and earning better grades.

Finally, my last, and hardest, obstacle is believing in myself. There have been countless times when I have felt like I could not complete all the assignments on time or study for one more minute after studying for three days straight. This is by far my biggest challenge. Luckily, whenever I’m having this problem, there is always something showing me that I am capable. Whether it is receiving a good grade or my peers encouraging me that I can do it and its normal to be feeling this way, either way it’s a blessing. I feel that this will always be a struggle for me throughout the program, but I hope that by the end I can realize how far I have actually come and that it was all done through me.